Those three words are said too much. They're not enough@9:14 PM
I've been reading a manga lately called "Say I Love You".
The title of the manga really had me thinking about how people so easily do say I love you when in relationships.
Of course if you feel that way, then of course you should say it but I feel like people say it because they feel obliged to say that once you're in a relationship or that because you're other half tells you that they love you, you should say it back.
To me, just because you're someone's boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't mean you love them. You can really like and care and adore your girlfriend/boyfriend but you don't have to love them just yet.
You should say those three words when you do feel like you do love them.
I feel like if you start saying it straight into a relationship, the words lose it's meaning.
I'd rather hear them only occasionally, then hear them every time I talk to my significant other.
I think it's more special that way.
When you tell someone you love them, that can either be the making or breaking point.
They can return those feelings of yours OR they won't feel the same way.
And if they don't feel the same way, then what does that make of your relationship?
Do you break up or do you wait it out and try to make them feel the same way?
That's why I think 'I love you" are three very special words.
It determines what point of a relationship you're in.
I guess it's different for all people though.
You might only be someone's boyfriend or girlfriend if you knew that you loved the other person and they loved you.
Or be like me and not necessarily love someone or that person love you, and still be willing to care and share your life with.
I guess for me, I'm not the type to say stuff like "i love you" or "i miss you" and stuff like that, easily.
I find it heaps awkward and I guess that's why I feel the way I do about saying I love you.
I guess there really are no wrongs and rights when it comes to relationships.
Everybody thinks differently.
And this is how I feel.