biggest pet peeve: when people think I want to change something about myself because of what people think

no no no

I hate it so much when I say I want to change something about myself and they reply with "People don't think you're fat/ugly/you're skin bad/stupid/ect" Or "People can't even see it" Or "It's not that noticeable"

I don't really care what other people think about me. The way I see it, if you're not remotely important to me,  I don't really give a fuck about what you think.
And so when I say I want to change, it's because everybody says I should, it's because I want to.
Sure I might put it to consideration if somebody says something about me but if I, myself say I want to change something, it's because I've actually thought about it and think it's a legit thing to do.

I've never felt the need to please really anyone and it just frustrates me when people think I should do well, anything just because of what other people think.

ugh annoying
pls stfu