Lately I can't help but notice contrasts in people.
I think all people have certain aspects to them that
contrast, whether it is looks contrasting with personality or even different
personality traits that contradict each other.
I think this concept of contrast within humans has
interested me because it shows the complexities of humans and that not
everything is black and white. Every person has emotions and I don't think you can just be set on what thing, I think being a person you , at least once in your life, have felt conflict and I think every person has a little bit of conflict in themselves but some people learn to embrace this conflict and turn into something that makes them unique (what is grammar) (idk if that made any sense at all to be honest)
I feel like we too often associate one thing with another
and leave at that and never think about the different possibilities and that’s
fine if we are interested or like that one thing but if we don’t then it doesn’t
give us the opportunity to see things differently.
For me, I like guys who have masculine features but have
very cute personalities because firstly I just find that contrast adorable to
be honest and I think I find myself really attracted to those types of guys
because I like that they don’t feel like they have to act a certain way to fit
how they look.
I think what I’m really trying to get at here is that people
surprise you and I feel like people don’t bother getting to know people well
enough to let themselves experience that element of surprise. Of course
sometimes it can be disappointing when you find out something that you don’t
expect but it also can be good and I think taking that chance is worth it.
(I'm sorry if this made no sense whatsoever. I just wanted to get down the idea of people with contradictory features down but i didn't know how to really say it)